Keywords
Sense of shame
True and false self
Submitted : 2025-01-14
Accepted : 2025-01-29
Published : 2025-02-13
Abstract
Under the background of comprehensively strengthening and improving the mental health work of students in the new era, combined with the practical work of psychological counseling, using Winnicott’s true and false self theory, this paper deeply analyzes the shame experience of a 24-year-old male graduate student client, discusses the trauma of his relationship with his parents in the early stage of growth, and focuses on analyzing the influence of his mother’s narcissistic behavior on his false self formation. Further, this study will analyze the root of his narcissistic damage and sense of shame, explore issues such as the sense of meaninglessness, worthlessness, and the hollow state experienced by his client, and provide reference value for the complex interaction between individual psychological development and significant others.
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